Portuguese Phrase
Tu me ajudas a preparar o jantar?
Meaning
Literally, 'You help me to prepare the dinner?' It is a polite request asking if the listener can assist in cooking the evening meal. The tone can be friendly or slightly urgent depending on context.
When to use
Use this phrase when you need a hand in the kitchen, for example when you’re short on time, cooking for guests, or just want to share the task with a family member or roommate.
✦Grammar Breakdown
Tumeajudasaprepararojantar?
Pronoun 'Tu'
Used for informal 'you' in Portugal; in Brazil, 'você' is more common.
Clitic pronoun 'me'
Object pronoun placed before the verb in European Portuguese; in Brazil it often follows the verb.
Verb 'ajudar' + infinitive
The verb 'ajudar' is followed by the preposition 'a' and an infinitive verb.
Definite article 'o'
Used before masculine singular nouns like 'jantar' (dinner).
Question intonation
Rising intonation at the end signals a yes‑no question; the question mark is optional in spoken language.
🗨In Conversation
Tu me ajudas a preparar o jantar?
Can you help me prepare dinner?
Claro! O que preciso fazer?
Sure! What do I need to do?
✕Common Mistakes
Você me ajudas a preparar o jantar?
If you use the formal 'você', the verb must be conjugated as 'ajuda'.
Tu me ajudas a fazer o jantar?
In Brazil, people often say 'fazer o jantar' instead of 'preparar'.
Tu ajudas me a preparar o jantar?
In Brazilian Portuguese the clitic usually follows the verb: 'ajuda‑me'.
↔Alternatives
Podes ajudar‑me a fazer o jantar?
Can you help me make dinner?
Queres ajudar‑me a cozinhar o jantar?
Do you want to help me cook dinner?
Ajudas‑me a preparar o jantar?
Will you help me prepare dinner?
Cultural Tip
In Portugal, meals are often a social event, and asking for help in the kitchen is common among family and close friends. Using 'tu' signals familiarity; with strangers or elders you would switch to 'você' (Brazil) or 'o senhor/a senhora' (Portugal). Also, dinner (jantar) is usually served later than in many other cultures, often around 8‑9 pm.

