Italian Phrase
Ti vergogni?
Meaning
This phrase is the second-person singular form of the reflexive verb 'vergognarsi'. It is used to ask if someone is feeling shame, embarrassment, or even just shyness in a specific situation. Depending on the context, it can be a gentle question or a slight provocation.
When to use
Use this in informal settings when you notice someone is hesitant to act due to shyness or when someone has committed a social faux pas. It is frequently heard among friends or when parents speak to children.
✦Grammar Breakdown
Tivergogni
Ti (Reflexive Pronoun)
The pronoun 'ti' indicates that the action of the verb 'vergognarsi' reflects back on the subject 'tu' (you).
Vergogni (Verb Conjugation)
This is the second-person singular present tense conjugation. The infinitive is 'vergognarsi', which is a common reflexive verb.
🗨In Conversation
Non voglio andare sul palco.
I don't want to go on stage.
Dai! Ti vergogni?
Come on! Are you shy?
✕Common Mistakes
Vergogni?
Italian reflexive verbs always require a reflexive pronoun like 'ti' in the second person.
Sei vergognato?
Learners often try to translate 'Are you ashamed' literally, but Italian uses the reflexive verb 'vergognarsi' rather than the verb 'to be'.
↔Alternatives
Ti senti in imbarazzo?
Do you feel embarrassed?
Hai vergogna?
Do you feel shame?
Cultural Tip
In Italy, the concept of 'bella figura' (making a good impression) is very important. Consequently, 'vergogna' is a powerful word that relates to social standing and public perception, though 'Ti vergogni?' is often used lightly among peers to tease someone for being shy.