Italian Phrase
Non lasciare che la delusione vinca.
Meaning
This phrase is a powerful encouragement used to inspire resilience. It acknowledges that disappointment is a natural feeling but urges the listener not to let that emotion dictate their actions or spirit.
When to use
Use this phrase when someone has experienced a setback, such as a failed exam or a job rejection, to encourage them to keep trying. It is common in motivational contexts and supportive friendships.
✦Grammar Breakdown
Nonlasciarechela delusionevinca
Negative Imperative (Tu)
The negative imperative for the informal 'you' is formed by placing 'non' before the infinitive form of the verb, e.g., 'non lasciare'.
Subjunctive Mood
'Vinca' is the present subjunctive of 'vincere'. It is used here because the main clause expresses a wish or an exhortation directed at another person.
🗨In Conversation
Ho fallito il colloquio di lavoro.
I failed the job interview.
Mi dispiace, ma non lasciare che la delusione vinca.
I'm sorry, but don't let disappointment win.
✕Common Mistakes
Non lasci che la delusione vinca.
In Italian, the negative imperative for the second person singular 'tu' uses the infinitive form of the verb.
Non lasciare che la delusione vince.
The verb after 'che' in this construction must be in the subjunctive mood 'vinca' rather than the indicative 'vince'.
↔Alternatives
Non mollare.
Don't give up.
Non farti abbattere.
Don't let it get you down.
Cultural Tip
Italians often use language that emphasizes inner strength and 'grinta' (grit). While expressing feelings is common, there is a strong cultural push to find the 'forza' (strength) to overcome obstacles and continue moving forward.