Italian Phrase
Come bisogna vestirsi?
Meaning
Literally, “How must one dress?” It is used to ask for the appropriate attire for a specific occasion or setting, whether formal, casual, or themed.
When to use
Use this phrase when you’re unsure about the dress code for events such as weddings, business meetings, parties, or even everyday situations like visiting a religious site.
✦Grammar Breakdown
Comebisognavestirsi?
Come (question word)
Used to ask 'how' or 'in what way' something is done.
bisogna (impersonal verb)
An impersonal form of 'bisognare' meaning 'it is necessary/one must'. It never takes a personal subject.
vestirsi (reflexive verb)
Means 'to dress oneself'. The reflexive pronoun is attached to the infinitive.
🗨In Conversation
Come bisogna vestirsi per il matrimonio di Luca?
How should we dress for Luca’s wedding?
È un matrimonio formale, quindi un abito scuro per gli uomini e un vestito elegante per le donne.
It’s a formal wedding, so a dark suit for men and an elegant dress for women.
✕Common Mistakes
Io bisogna vestirsi.
‘Bisogna’ is impersonal; it never takes a personal subject like ‘io’. Use ‘devo vestirmi’ instead.
Come bisogna vestire?
The reflexive form ‘vestirsi’ is required because you’re talking about dressing yourself.
Come bisogna vestirese?
The correct infinitive is ‘vestirsi’; adding ‘-se’ is a common typo for the reflexive pronoun.
↔Alternatives
Che vestiti devo indossare?
What clothes should I wear?
Qual è il dress code?
What is the dress code?
Come ci si deve vestire?
How should we dress?
Cultural Tip
In Italy, dress codes can be quite regional. In the north, business attire tends to be more formal and conservative, while the south often embraces a slightly more relaxed style. For most formal events (weddings, galas, important meetings) Italians expect polished, well‑fitted clothing—think dark suits, crisp shirts, and minimal accessories. When in doubt, ask “Come bisogna vestirsi?” and follow the advice; showing up under‑dressed is considered disrespectful, while over‑dressing can be seen as trying too hard.