German Phrase
Meine Gesundheit und mein Wohlbefinden kommen bei mir zuerst.
Meaning
This phrase is a strong statement about personal priorities, emphasizing that physical and mental health are more important than other obligations. It uses the plural verb 'kommen' because it refers to two distinct subjects: health and well-being.
When to use
Use this phrase when discussing work-life balance, explaining why you are setting boundaries, or talking about your lifestyle choices. It is suitable for both personal conversations and more formal discussions about wellness.
✦Grammar Breakdown
Meine Gesundheitundmein Wohlbefindenkommenbei mirzuerst
Compound Subject
When two nouns are joined by 'und', the verb must be conjugated in the plural form (kommen).
Bei mir
In this context, 'bei mir' functions as 'in my case' or 'for me' to indicate a personal standard or ranking.
🗨In Conversation
Kannst du dieses Wochenende auch noch arbeiten?
Can you also work this weekend?
Nein, tut mir leid. Meine Gesundheit und mein Wohlbefinden kommen bei mir zuerst.
No, I'm sorry. My health and my well-being come first for me.
✕Common Mistakes
Meine Gesundheit und mein Wohlbefinden kommt bei mir zuerst.
Since there are two subjects (health and well-being), the verb must be plural 'kommen'.
Meine Gesundheit und mein Wohlbefinden kommen zuerst für mich.
While 'für mich' is understandable, 'bei mir' is the more idiomatic way to express personal priority in this context.
↔Alternatives
Ich priorisiere meine Gesundheit.
I prioritize my health.
Meine Gesundheit hat oberste Priorität.
My health has top priority.
Cultural Tip
In modern German culture, the concept of 'Selbstfürsorge' (self-care) is increasingly valued to combat burnout. Stating your health is a priority is generally seen as a sign of maturity and self-awareness rather than selfishness.