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German Phrase

Mit wem hast du gesprochen?

/mɪt veːm hɑst duː ɡəˈʃpʁɔxən/
Meaning"With whom did you speak?"
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Meaning

Literally, “With whom did you speak?” It asks about the person (or persons) you had a conversation with in the past. The sentence uses the perfect tense, which is the most common way to talk about completed actions in spoken German.

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When to use

Use this question after you notice that someone has been talking, or when you want to find out the conversation partner of a past discussion. It works in informal settings (du) and can be switched to the formal *Sie* form: *Mit wem haben Sie gesprochen?*

Grammar Breakdown

Mitwemhastdugesprochen?

1

Mit + Dativ

The preposition *mit* always governs the dative case, so the following pronoun must be in dative form.

2

Wem (Dativ‑Fragepronomen)

*Wem* is the dative interrogative pronoun meaning “to whom/with whom”.

3

Perfekt mit *haben*

The perfect tense of *sprechen* is built with the auxiliary *haben* + past participle *gesprochen*.

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Verb‑second (V2) in Fragen

In German yes‑no and wh‑questions the finite verb occupies the second position, right after the question phrase.

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Partizip am Satzende

In the perfect tense the past participle is placed at the end of the clause.

🗨In Conversation

A

Mit wem hast du gestern im Büro gesprochen?

With whom did you speak yesterday at the office?

Ich habe mit Anna über das neue Projekt gesprochen.

I spoke with Anna about the new project.

B

Common Mistakes

  • Mit wer hast du gesprochen?

    The preposition *mit* requires dative, so the correct pronoun is *wem*, not the nominative *wer*.

  • Hast du gesprochen mit wem?

    In German the verb must stay in second position; the prepositional phrase cannot be moved to the end.

  • Was hast du gesprochen?

    Leaving out *mit* changes the meaning; you would be asking *what* you spoke, not *with whom*.

  • Du hast gesprochen mit wem?

    Word order is wrong for a wh‑question; the finite verb must follow the question phrase.

Alternatives

  • Mit wem hast du dich unterhalten?

    With whom did you chat?

  • Wen hast du gesprochen?

    Whom did you speak to?

  • Mit wem hast du geredet?

    With whom did you talk?

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Cultural Tip

In German the informal *du* is used among friends, family, and colleagues of the same rank. In a business or formal context you would replace *du* with *Sie*: *Mit wem haben Sie gesprochen?* Also, Germans tend to be direct about who they spoke with, so the question is perfectly acceptable in most social situations.