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French Phrase

Les invités, ils doivent se comporter comment ?

/le z‿ɛ̃.vi.te i.l dɔ.vɑ̃ sə kɔ̃.pɔʁ.te kɔ.mɑ̃/
Meaning"How should the guests behave?"
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Meaning

The speaker is asking for the proper behavior expected of the guests. It’s a colloquial way to request etiquette guidelines for people who are invited to an event or a home.

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When to use

Use this informal question when you’re planning a party, a wedding, or a dinner and want to clarify house rules, dress code, or general conduct. It’s typical in casual conversation among friends, family, or event organizers.

Grammar Breakdown

Lesinvités,ilsdoiventsecomportercomment?

1

Topic‑Comment Structure

In spoken French a noun can be fronted as a topic (Les invités) and then repeated with a pronoun (ils) for emphasis.

2

Reflexive Verb

Se comporter is a reflexive verb; the reflexive pronoun (se) agrees with the subject.

3

Modal + Infinitive

Doivent + infinitive expresses obligation (must). The modal verb agrees with the plural subject.

4

Question with « comment »

When « comment » follows the verb, the sentence stays in declarative order (… se comporter comment ?) – a common spoken pattern.

5

Redundancy of the Pronoun

The pronoun « ils » is optional; it adds emphasis but can be omitted in more neutral speech.

🗨In Conversation

A

Les invités, ils doivent se comporter comment ?

How should the guests behave?

Ils doivent arriver à l’heure, ne pas parler trop fort et apporter un petit cadeau si c’est un dîner.

They should arrive on time, not speak too loudly, and bring a small gift if it’s a dinner.

B

Common Mistakes

  • Comment les invités ils doivent se comporter ?

    The adverb « comment » should follow the verb, not precede the subject; also avoid double subject placement.

  • Les invités, ils doit se comporter comment ?

    The modal verb must agree with the plural subject; use « doivent ».

  • Comment se comporter les invités ?

    While acceptable in spoken French, learners often mistakenly place « comment » before the verb, which sounds overly formal.

Alternatives

  • Comment les invités doivent‑ils se comporter ?

    How should the guests behave?

  • Comment les invités doivent se comporter ?

    How should the guests behave?

  • De quelle façon les invités doivent se comporter ?

    In what way should the guests behave?

  • Les invités doivent se comporter de quelle manière ?

    In what manner should the guests behave?

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Cultural Tip

In French culture, guests are expected to be punctual, bring a small token (like a bottle of wine) for a dinner, and avoid dominating the conversation. Using the informal structure with a fronted topic and a repeated pronoun is common in everyday speech, but avoid it in formal writing or official invitations where a more polished form such as « Comment les invités doivent‑ils se comporter ? » is preferred.