Spanish Phrase
¿Tienes que irte?
Meaning
This phrase is used to ask if someone is obligated or needs to depart. It combines the verb 'tener' with 'que' to express necessity, followed by the reflexive verb 'irse' which specifically means to leave or go away.
When to use
Use this in social settings when someone starts showing signs of departure, such as checking their watch or grabbing their coat. It is commonly used among friends and family to express a slight desire for the person to stay longer.
✦Grammar Breakdown
¿Tienesqueirte?
Tener que
This construction is used to express obligation or necessity, similar to 'have to' in English.
Reflexive 'te'
The '-te' at the end of 'irte' is a reflexive pronoun matching 'tú', indicating the person is moving themselves away from the current location.
🗨In Conversation
Ya son las diez de la noche.
It is already ten at night.
¿Tienes que irte? Quédate un poco más.
Do you have to leave? Stay a little longer.
✕Common Mistakes
¿Tienes que ir?
Use the reflexive 'irte' to mean 'leave'; 'ir' usually requires a destination.
¿Tienes irte?
The word 'que' is mandatory between 'tener' and the infinitive to express obligation.
↔Alternatives
¿Ya te vas?
Are you leaving already?
¿Es necesario que te marches?
Is it necessary that you depart?
Cultural Tip
In many Hispanic cultures, social events often lack a strict end time. Asking this phrase is a polite way to acknowledge someone's departure while subtly suggesting you've enjoyed their company and aren't rushing them out.