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German Phrase

Kommst du heute Abend mit uns essen?

/ˈkɔmst du ˈhɔʏtə ˈaːbnt mɪt ʊns ˈʔeːsn̩/
Meaning"Are you coming to eat with us tonight?"
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Meaning

The speaker is asking a friend or acquaintance whether they will join the group for dinner later that evening. It is a friendly, informal invitation that assumes the listener knows the plan already.

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When to use

Use this sentence when you have already arranged a dinner or when you want to extend a casual invitation to someone you know well. It works for both home meals and restaurant outings, as long as the tone stays informal.

Grammar Breakdown

KommstduheuteAbendmitunsessen?

1

Kommst (kommen)

Second‑person singular present of the verb *kommen*; used here as a direct invitation.

2

du

Informal singular pronoun. In invitations among friends the informal *du* is standard.

3

heute Abend

Temporal phrase meaning “this evening”. *heute* = today, *Abend* = evening.

4

mit uns

Prepositional phrase with *mit* + dative pronoun *uns* (us). Indicates accompaniment.

5

essen (infinitive)

Infinitive used after *kommen* + *mit* to express the activity you are coming to do.

6

Verb‑second (V2) order

In main clauses German places the finite verb in second position; the subject *du* follows it.

🗨In Conversation

A

Kommst du heute Abend mit uns essen?

Are you coming to eat with us tonight?

Ja, gern! Um wie viel Uhr soll ich da sein?

Yes, gladly! What time should I be there?

B

Common Mistakes

  • Kommst du heute Abend zu uns essen?

    The verb *kommen* already implies movement toward the group; the correct preposition is *mit* (with), not *zu* (to).

  • Kommst du heute Abend mit uns essen gehen?

    If you want to say “go out to eat”, you need *essen gehen* as a separate verb phrase, not the infinitive after *kommen*.

  • Du kommst heute Abend mit uns essen?

    In a question the finite verb must be in second position, so *Kommst du* is correct; *Du kommst* would be a statement.

Alternatives

  • Möchtest du heute Abend mit uns essen?

    Would you like to eat with us tonight?

  • Willst du heute Abend mit uns essen?

    Do you want to eat with us tonight?

  • Kommst du heute Abend zum Essen mit uns?

    Are you coming to dinner with us this evening?

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Cultural Tip

In German culture, being punctual for dinner invitations is appreciated; arriving a few minutes early is considered polite. If you’re invited to someone’s home, it’s customary to bring a small gift (e.g., a bottle of wine or a dessert). The informal *du* signals a friendly relationship, so avoid using *Sie* unless the setting is formal or you’re speaking to a stranger.