French Phrase
Comment on se salue avec les mains ?
Meaning
This question is used to inquire about the physical gestures involved in a French greeting. It specifically asks for guidance on whether to shake hands, wave, or use another hand-based sign of recognition.
When to use
Use this phrase when you are in a new social or professional situation in a French-speaking country and are unsure of the local etiquette. It is a polite way to avoid social awkwardness during introductions.
✦Grammar Breakdown
Commentonsesalueaveclesmains
Comment
An interrogative adverb used to start a question asking 'in what way' or 'how'.
On
An indefinite pronoun that serves as a casual replacement for 'nous' (we) in spoken French.
Se saluer
A reflexive verb meaning 'to greet each other', where 'se' indicates the reciprocal action.
🗨In Conversation
C'est mon premier jour au bureau. Comment on se salue avec les mains ?
It's my first day at the office. How do we greet each other with our hands?
Ici, on se serre la main tout simplement.
Here, we simply shake hands.
✕Common Mistakes
Comment on salue avec les mains ?
The verb must be reflexive ('se salue') because the action is performed by people to each other.
Comment nous saluons avec les mains ?
While correct, using 'on' is much more natural and common in everyday spoken French than 'nous'.
↔Alternatives
On se serre la main ?
Do we shake hands?
Comment on se dit bonjour ?
How do we say hello to each other?
Cultural Tip
In French business culture, a brief and firm handshake is standard. However, among friends, especially younger generations, a casual wave or even a 'fist bump' (le check) might be used if 'la bise' is not appropriate.